Thursday, October 29, 2009

Adventure In Nusa Lembongan



















Adventure in Nusa Lembengon.... May 2009

A clear bright morning sky on a tropical Indonesian island, what more could you desire from being in Nature. The place: Nusa Lembongan, is a small island off Bali, a much quieter and basic way of living than it’s larger touristy neighbour. Here the locals farm seaweed and live a simple life, and it shows. It shows in their contentment and in the simple ways of living, that is alien to us “advanced” westerners. My companion: Wimmy a lovely Javanese girl I met in Holland earlier in the year. From our little chalet, not much disturbed the melodic sound of the ocean through the night, and not much obscured our view of star watching the night before.

In the morning soon after breakfast, we went snorkelling. A brave move if you have a dialysis catheter embedded into your belly. So with copious amounts of tape, I believed I would be ok. We set out on a little fishing boat to the far north side of the island next to the coral reefs and mangroves. The water was a stunning turquoise colour, both warm and inviting. It felt amazing and free to be able to snorkel again - the first time, after kidney failure. Beautiful to see the world under the ocean again: corals reefs, shells, tropical fish. It was another world, and funnily enough, it was Wimmy’s first time snorkelling - as she tells me as she breathes in a load of water through the snorkel.

We hired a moped in the afternoon and went about exploring the rest of the island, passing the stormy beautiful beaches of the northern shore. Somehow we crossed the bridge onto Ceningan island, and took a route up the mountain cutting through dirt roads and farm houses, culminating to a beautiful vista overlooking the ocean. There we sat for a while, just listening to the waves crash against the cliff face. It was peaceful, a moment that still stands out in my mind eye. It was there I felt was the right place to initiate Wimmy with Reiki.

It was a beautiful day, that words do no justice to describe. The feelings we felt on that day, the moments we shared, personal yet touching without words. Sometimes I think back on those moments on the island of how things were and how things turned out...yet still, I would never want to change the way things were...perfect as it was at the time...

So what happened? Well, it’s a long story... Best told by a song that so reminds me of the memories of the moment.. (Maria Mena – Calm under the waves - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-5l_Xh3Mwg )

Soon after flying back to Jakarta, I left to go to Dubai and return home. She asked if I could stay, I could not because of my medical supplies. Sad, but that’s how fate weaves it’s web, sometimes to bring people together for a brief time so they can share and learn from each other. I will always remember the positiveness of this young girl, and how she has inspired me to open up and be positive no-matter what the situation prevails.

What happened to Wimmy? Well, when I left, she entered the Jakarta Miss Tourism Ambassador “beauty pagent”. A few weeks later she won the regional round, a month later she won the national round. So now, she’s pretty much a celebrity with her name and face known nationwide in Indonesia. I always knew from the first moment I met her, that she was someone special. It was her emotional intelligence that set her apart. Deep down we felt this connection instantly, a feeling for once of knowing, for me, I was not alone in coming here – a feeling of oneness perhaps in some way from the same “soul family”. For me, it took a lot heartache and endurance of facing ego to let her go. She is the one person this year that has changed my life completely, for the spiritual lessons that I’ve learnt from out time together. I am grateful for our time together from how we’ve been able to inspire each other, but I understand now, more than ever, that, Love really is understanding that we all need to be free, but to also share in what we may learn from each other.

Wimmy’s Blog: http://www.happywimmy.blogspot.com (this is where you see our blog entries cross)

Sunset in Nusa Lembongan (may 2009)










Nusa Lembongan, Bali, May 2009

The last time I wrote was in June when I was visiting Indonesia. Much has happened since then, and I have always wanted to finish off the story of Bali, before I write about what happened in summer 2009, or my recent trip to San Francisco to start an MA in Integral Theory (a kind of holistic psychology/philosophy), or how I’ve ended up back in Holland.

For those that have never received these emails before, I want to say hi, and say that I write because I enjoy sharing the stories of travelling from my perspective. Some of you have been with me for years and have followed my journeys from the days I first went around the world, and hopefully in some way, the stories have inspired you in some way to grab life by the tail and go out there and live it, or to open up and see things in a different way. Never be too afraid to try things, go out there, connect and share with others, explore what it means to be alive what it means to be human.

Trying to find the right words, trying to find the right feelings to convey without the heaviness of too much emotion or being too flat yet being true to the story, is hard and is often personal, and that’s what makes these journey’s to me special, because I write them for me. Well in early summer this year, I did travel to beautiful island called Nusa Lembongan with a beautiful young lady friend, Wimmy:

For a short time, all our troubles and lives were left behind on an island of simplicity and tranquillity, to share a beautiful time together. When people ask, what is the most precious gift you can ever receive from someone, I say more than anything, it is quality time together to share. This is what we had on the island, dipping our toes in warm tropical waters, watching sunsets on a sandy beach, having fun, just living in the moment, relaxing, getting up at night to watch shooting stars fall from the night sky. It was if, in those moments, time seemed to pass slowly, just appreciating each moment as it was, reflecting on the beautiful surroundings. It was a special weekend, for me a dip of the toe of what love and sharing love between two people feels like again, but with all moments, they never last, and what remains are happy memories, and a continued friendship... tbc...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ow6osGF3RVc&feature=related